Are You Paying Attention?

*NOTE: The most important thing you do every day is to simply get started.


I won't face the day
I will not…

What would happen if the moment you opened your eyes in the morning you didn’t get up?  What if you just laid there, all day, everyday, and refused to get up?  You closed your eyes and made the decision…I’m not getting up today, and you did that everyday.

It would change your life.

What’s your routine?

What would happen if you didn’t do that first thing you do every morning when you first get up?

What would happen if you went through every day aimlessly, with nowhere to go and nothing to do…so you just didn’t!  Every day you just didn’t…what would your life look like?

Are you following my logic here?

Every day requires decisions.

You make them everyday without thought or consideration of how they impact your life.

What if you started living your life on purpose?  What if every move you made was on purpose, with a definite starting point, action and result?

Start with the simple things, like the actions you take everyday without thought.  Practice doing it on purpose with a conscious purpose that creates action and an ending result.

Consciously think about each aspect of the decision, action and result.

This will begin to create a habit that will bleed through into other aspects of your life.  It will begin to encourage creative thinking that will involve other areas of your life.

  • relationships
  • work
  • pleasure
  • business
  • family

Habits don’t just happen!

Habits are formed by doing, over and over and over and over.

Bad or good, habits need repetition.  Some are easier to form than others.  But that’s where your needs, wants, and desires come into play.  That’s where you start learning who you really are and how real the dream is.

Then you decide to build some new habits.

Refuse to lose and you win.


ChristyFrom Christy with Love

P.S.  Changing what you have, comes from changing who you are.

And changing who you are comes from changing what you think.

P.S.S.  Some of my best decisions I make on purpose, and they make me money.  Some passive and others require learning and applying.  It all builds me up, and my future forward.


Always Moving Forward

*NOTE:  Honesty and integrity.  Fill the void  and create change.


Mindset Matters

Needs and desires, when not met, creates pain in our lives.

That pain creates a mental vacuum.

According to the laws of nature and physics, empty or unfilled spaces (vacuums) are unnatural. Wherever there is a void, the universe seeks to fill it. Turns out Aristotle was primarily right when he said “Nature abhors a vacuum”.

We have all heard and often use the thought that “necessity is the mother of all invention.” I know I have used it myself on numerous occasions.

This is what that means: A need creates a mental vacuum which the universe will move to fill with inspiring thoughts. The key is to have a receptive mind in order to be open to these thoughts.

These thoughts can inspire movement and creativity that will result in the fulfillment of the need.

We are always the central point of that creation. Nothing happens for us, without us. We are the spark, the beginning and the end

Honesty and Integrity

Honesty and integrity are important when building relationships, whether personal, social or business.

Sometimes we forget that the most important person to show honesty and integrity to is ourselves.
We’re going to end up spending a lot of time beating our self up and picking our self up off the ground if we’re not honest with ourselves about:
  • what we want
  • where we’re going
  • what it’s going to take
  • and how much of that we’re willing to do
If you can drill down deep into what you want and how bad you want it, you will then be faced with the reality of whether you have what it takes to get you there.


The fact is we all do.  We all have what it takes.  But do we want it or do we just want to think we want it.


I’m currently demoing FXSignalsLive and learning how to earn with Forex.


I’ve also decided to go for more passive income with CryptoBitTrade with a second position.


I also have bitcoin with USI that has a lower entry point.  Obviously those packages earn slower, but 1% of something is better than 1% of nothing.


The word from professionals is that Bitcoin is heading for $6,000 per coin, so I want to buy into more now before it continues going up.


We are in the last quarter of the year and great things can happen in 90 days, if you plan it.


I’m happy with where I’m at and grateful for what I have.  It saddens me to see all the chaos in the world, both nature and human driven.  We must start with ourselves to effect change and a better future.  I hope you have a plan for yours.


Refuse to lose and you win.


Christy Ruffner

From Christy with Love

The Connections Coach
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“Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” -Jim Rohn
P.S.  Currently listening to “Trading in the Zone” By Mark Douglas on Audible

Hands Free, No Recruiting, No Experience, Passive Income

*NOTE:  Could it get easier than hands free?  Does the passive nature make it less or more desirable?  You could work harder, but would that be smarter?


I have a story to tell you.

Let’s say we are friends and we live in the same town.

You just went out to this great Organic Restaurant, had a great meal and experience and you knew how we both really enjoyed great organic food.

So you call me all excited to tell me about this great restaurant and go on about how fabulous the food was, how great the price was and the atmosphere was stellar.

Then I say, oh yeah, I was just in there the other night, I found that restaurant back a couple of months ago.

You’re thinking, really!!! And you didn’t think to tell me about it?

You’d probably be a little pissed, disappointed, and wonder what kind of friends we really were, right?

Well, it’s the same way with business, and I wouldn’t want you to find out about it from anyone else.

When I have something that I KNOW will help you finally create a different ending with a brighter beginning, it would be selfish of me not to paint a picture of what YOU potentially have right in front of you.

Sometimes I wish me making money was good enough for me to be happy, but truth is I continue to care about other people regardless of how much I personally make.

It’s in my blood and I couldn’t possibly change that aspect of me if I tried, and I don’t think I would ever want to.

If you’re not open to change and you want to live life at your own status quo, that’s your business..

However, I have to do my part, so I can sleep at night.

I’m thankful that I have pushed myself beyond my comfort zone, otherwise I wouldn’t be where I am now.  That’s why I continue to try and encourage you to do the same.

You want to be annoyed with me when I share something with you that could change your life, that’s fine…

But, you should be more upset if I didn’t.

That being said, I have to share this video I made.

Refuse to lose and you win.



The Connections Coach
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P.S.  I don’t have to share this with anyone to get paid.  You don’t have to do anything for me to get paid.  My actions are what get me paid…
  • My vision
  • My passion
  • My effort
  • ME!
The  most recent post on his sister’s progress.
Passive income with IML
Passive income with IML


Success Leaves Clues

*NOTE:  I’m sure you’ve heard it before, that success leaves clues.  But have you paid attention?


What’s the main difference between those who are ultra successful and those who just don’t cut it?  What are the mediocre in life missing?

I’ve watched the mindset of those who just believe that success is out of their reach.  It always depends on luck for them and they are the unluckiest people in the world – right?

It’s frustrating as hell to watch, because there’s no convincing them that they are just as capable as the next guy, that they are standing in their own way, with their mental attitude.

There are certain actions you must take if you want to turn things around.

Stay tuned here and you will find the steps to take and a game plan to use them to get you where you want to go.  Put the secrets I share with you into play and see how they change your life.

Refuse to lose and you win.



Go here if you want to crush it in life right now. From Christy with Love

I only want to talk to You

*Note:  If you’re here, I want to talk to you.


On September 20th I cancelled my account with Aweber.


You may wonder what that means.


That means you are the only one I want to talk to.


I miss MPA…
  • the update videos
  • the training
  • and yes, the money
But I’ve moved on, and what I’m doing now is much more sustainable.  I have control over how much of a 5+ Trillion Dollar a day industry I want to capture.  I don’t have to worry about whether it will be here next year at this time.  Once the money is coming in, it will keep coming as long as I keep doing.  (Actually, one of the programs I’m working doesn’t even require me to do anything.  It’s pretty cool.)


So back to Aweber… I wondered what I was going to do when I didn’t have my lists to write to.  I really enjoyed writing those letters.  And I enjoyed hearing back from many of you.


So, I’ve decided to get back to my blogging.


I started this blog back when I originally put my website up:


It’s gone through a lot of changes.  Content has come and gone.  It’s been a news site, a commerce site, a training site.  I just keep reinventing myself and each time more of the pieces fall into place.


That’s why you need to not be afraid to fail, because each failure teaches you something, about yourself.  Who you want to be, what you are capable of, where you’re going, where you want to go.


You may think you know who you are, what you want to do, what future you want.  But until you step into it, you really know nothing.  It’s all just a fantasy, waiting to be discovered.


So, this is a new leg of my journey.


  1. I’ll be writing in my blog.
  2. I’ll share my progress with my passive income platform
  3. And I’ll reveal my journey with Forex.  So much to learn and so much money to be made.  Check it out and watch as your preconceived ideas get wasted along the way.  So simple a 14 year old could do it.  Doesn’t take a lot of money.  The more you learn, the more you can earn.


Forex – Go watch the videos on this page.  It will blow you away.


Refuse to lose and you win.





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From Christy with Love
“Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” -Jim Rohn

The Simplest Way to Control Your Wealth

*NOTE:  Most people grow up, go to school and hit the job market with dreams of financial security and doing what they love everyday.  Others look for opportunities to build their dream off of someone elses back.  Smart ones take their financial future into their own hands and build something that doesn’t rely on anyone else, just their own actions.  But, that can be scary if you don’t believe in yourself.


What does your Freedom look like?

It’s me again.  Just checking in to see how you’re doing with your search for financial independence.

Have you conquered your fear and made a move on anything?  Have you found anything that gave you that confidence that you could do it?

2 Ways to Achieve Financial Independence

I have found the simplest way to control wealth and create as much money, on demand, as I want.

Two totally separate ways to generate income that do not require recruiting or hard work.  The perfect combination right?

And, they don’t require a fortune to get started either, BINGO!  The perfect combination just got better.

Everything in life boils down to these…

It’s easy and simple, but takes a decision and action beyond that decision.  Everything we accomplish in life boils down to those two items.

  • nothing happens until a decision is made
  • no progress is made without an action taken on that decision

Drop dead simple strategy

I have something to share with you that is so drop dead simple a 14 year old could do it.  All you have to do is click the picture above and I’ll show it to you.  No commitment.  Don’t be afraid.  This isn’t a trick.

Learn a skill and it will pay you for life.  Or passively watch your income grow, hands off.

One, you control how fast and how much.  The other you have no control and the income is fixed.

Your choice.  Your decision.  Your action to take.

Refuse to lose and you win.



With Love from Christy


You’re Never Too Old To Dream

*NOTE: Letter to myself, dreaming in my 60’s


There is a science to Forex. It is teachable and therefore you can learn. There are tools for you to be able to do, so that you can understand and profit.

Never in a Million Years!

I had a discussions the other day with a friend…we were both saying how, never in a million years did we think we would be learning Forex in our 60’s.

I always believed Forex was too difficult and risky.  I never gave it any consideration because of that.

Then I saw a trusted mentor sharing some drop dead simple strategies that made me believe that even I could do this.

The financial world has always been like a foreign language to me.  I’ve never understood the simplest of concepts.  I had to break it down to black and white details.  The bottom line was always, did I make money or lose money.

I always figured I was meant for the 9-5 and nothing more.   But the 9-5 simply is not enough.  And I live a pretty meager lifestyle.  I’m happy with that lifestyle.  Yet the 9-5 doesn’t even provide for that meager lifestyle.

Do you feel me?  Are you there?

I put in the work, because I know I can.  If others can do it, so can I.  All anyone ever lacks is the desire.

Are you where you want to be?

If you’re not where you want to be, it’s only because you don’t want it bad enough.  The universe always, always brings you what you think and desire most.

Time to change your thoughts and walk in your dreams.

Success is not a young persons right. We all have the right to be successful. We’re never too old to dream.  And it’s okay to dream big!  The trick is to allow yourself to dream big enough.

Refuse to lose and you win.



With Love from Christy

Passive Income Combined with Actionable Income

*NOTE:  What do I mean by that?  Two different income streams.  One that grows without my participation, the other that grows in direction proportion to the action I take.


Time to check in on my passive income and see what’s going on there.

Passive daily income
Passive Daily Income

Nothing to do here but watch it grow.  Half of the income will be held in reserve in order to be able to repurchase my package, once the package has earned it’s potential and I’ll start all over again.

Then I have my Forex Trading

This will take time and effort to learn the skill that will pay me over and over.  I will be able to scale this up and essentially write my own paycheck.

I have all the tools and the education at my fingertips, with all the support I need to get my questions answered.

Forex Trading and Pitchforks

My membership with I Markets Live provides me with top notch training from professionals in the industry.  But this particular training has an element of exclusivity and will not be easily found anywhere else, certainly not for the price we pay.  (It’s included in our IML subscription fee.)

So I’m starting on a new journey to build a skill that will allow me to trade with greater profit potential and lower risk.  It’s a style that makes your trading robotic and removes the emotion.  It’s all about the science of trading and takes the guess work out of your decisions.

Stay tuned for updates as I begin this journey.

Refuse to lose and you win.



From Christy with Love

Time to Train Your Brain

*NOTE:  The hardest kept secrets are the heaviest to bear.

What are your secrets?


Most secrets, the heaviest secrets, the most limiting secrets, are the ones born of fear.

Your Fear Becomes Your Limitations

Fear is our biggest stumbling block.  It keeps us from

  • happiness
  • success
  • love
  • fulfillment
  • peace

It robs us of what life/living is all about.

No matter what your belief, life is about more than the fear you have allowed to entrap you.

The key to freedom from fear lies in education.

No, not formal, university type education.

Time to stop worrying about tomorrow and work on today.

Time to Learn!

Who are you and where are you going in life?  What do you need to do to get there?  What do you have to learn to make that happen?

Start there…you’ll be surprised where it takes you.
This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. You can train your mind to do what you want it to. Collaboration with your mind is crucial, the pictures you make in your head and the words that you say to yourself influence how you feel. So tell yourself better things, stretch your mind – make the unfamiliar, familiar.

Refuse to lose and you win.



From Christy with Love